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Bring back the fire into your sex life... or create it if there hasn’t been too much to begin with. A few tips for you, in the ascending order of boldness.
Bring a sex(y) kitten into the bedroom: You, that is. When was the last time you had nothing on but something sheer and skimpy that left little to the imagination? Dress down. Your man (and more obviously, you too) will be extremely turned on by the sight of you in sensuous satin or as a lacy tease. Walk the stockings and garter path to seduction.
Talk dirty when least expected: If you haven’t yet tried talking dirty during foreplay/sex, what on earth are you waiting for? And if you’ve been there, done that, gooooood for you. Now take it one step further and give him some “oral action” when he’s least expecting it — during dinner at a classy restaurant, a friends’ home party, at his/your parents’ place...
“Forget” some lingerie: While getting sexperimental outside the four walls of your bedroom, it could be fun to get all dressed up minus an itsy-bitsy-teeny-weeny something that lies beneath. You don’t have to be a bra-burning feminist to go bouncing your female bits all over the place, or in the military to go commando. Just remember that it’s only for that special someone’s eyes.
Indulge in pleasurable pain: There’s a fine line between pleasure and pain. And anyone who has read 'Fifty Shades of Grey' knows that fear of pain lies principally in the mind. Or so EL James would like us to believe. The only way to know — try inflicting or receiving pain, within reasonable limits to start with.
Get it on camera: Have you ever fantasised about being surreptitiously watched during the act? By a neighbour through a pair of binoculars, for example? Or by you, yourself? Experiment with a sex tape for what it’s worth. Of course, the two of you must have complete trust in each other. Unless you want to be at the receiving end of an Ashmit Patel.
Playact in a porno flick: At the stage where you think sex tapes are banal? It’s time to go hardcore. A lame make-believe scenario (think pizza delivery guy and horny housewife, sexy teacher and student’s sex-obsessed father, a couple of hardworking employees), a willing partner, costumes (or lack of them, rather), a camera to film all the action... and you’ve got all it takes for your own homemade porno flick. Of course, when it comes to picking an audience, discretion is advised.
Bring back the fire into your sex life... or create it if there hasn’t been too much to begin with. A few tips for you, in the ascending order of boldness.
Bring a sex(y) kitten into the bedroom: You, that is. When was the last time you had nothing on but something sheer and skimpy that left little to the imagination? Dress down. Your man (and more obviously, you too) will be extremely turned on by the sight of you in sensuous satin or as a lacy tease. Walk the stockings and garter path to seduction.
Talk dirty when least expected: If you haven’t yet tried talking dirty during foreplay/sex, what on earth are you waiting for? And if you’ve been there, done that, gooooood for you. Now take it one step further and give him some “oral action” when he’s least expecting it — during dinner at a classy restaurant, a friends’ home party, at his/your parents’ place...
“Forget” some lingerie: While getting sexperimental outside the four walls of your bedroom, it could be fun to get all dressed up minus an itsy-bitsy-teeny-weeny something that lies beneath. You don’t have to be a bra-burning feminist to go bouncing your female bits all over the place, or in the military to go commando. Just remember that it’s only for that special someone’s eyes.
Indulge in pleasurable pain: There’s a fine line between pleasure and pain. And anyone who has read 'Fifty Shades of Grey' knows that fear of pain lies principally in the mind. Or so EL James would like us to believe. The only way to know — try inflicting or receiving pain, within reasonable limits to start with.
Get it on camera: Have you ever fantasised about being surreptitiously watched during the act? By a neighbour through a pair of binoculars, for example? Or by you, yourself? Experiment with a sex tape for what it’s worth. Of course, the two of you must have complete trust in each other. Unless you want to be at the receiving end of an Ashmit Patel.
Playact in a porno flick: At the stage where you think sex tapes are banal? It’s time to go hardcore. A lame make-believe scenario (think pizza delivery guy and horny housewife, sexy teacher and student’s sex-obsessed father, a couple of hardworking employees), a willing partner, costumes (or lack of them, rather), a camera to film all the action... and you’ve got all it takes for your own homemade porno flick. Of course, when it comes to picking an audience, discretion is advised.
